I watched the US Open over Labor Day Weekend. I especially enjoyed hearing the post match interviews of the players. It was very interesting to hear what the players had to say, especially those who had gone down in defeat. Remember that it's not being a good sport to make excuses about one's loss. To say that you played poorly in defeat is rude to your opponent. (even if it is the truth...) Bite your tongue and swallow your pride if you have to. It's good sportsmanship to give credit to the victor. It's bad sportsmanship to make excuses.
Inspite of the antics of John McEnroe and Jimmy Connors over the years, tennis really has a tradition and legacy of sportsmanship and good manners. Accept responsibility for a loss and move on. One of the life lessons tennis teaches is how to react to adverse conditions. There is a winner and loser for every match up. Learning to win and lose with style and grace is a trait that is developed over time. No body wants to hear how the other guy cheated, or you were injured, or that you just played terrible.
In short, don't make excuses. A healthy attitude toward winning and losing is necessary to become a champion on and off the court. Learn from your setbacks. Try to avoid making the same mistakes in future matches. You'll be more fun to hang out with and people will like you more...!
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